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diff --git a/assets/peepohigh.webp b/assets/peepohigh.webp
new file mode 100644
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diff --git a/index.css b/index.css
index cef1898..22722c4 100644
--- a/index.css
+++ b/index.css
@@ -307,6 +307,15 @@ span:empty {
 	font-size: 1.3rem;
 	font-weight: 700;
 	opacity: 0.92;
+	display: flex;
+	align-items: center;
+	gap: 0.45rem;
+}
+
+#friendScoresHeaderImg {
+	width: 1.5rem;
+	height: 1.5rem;
+	object-fit: contain;
 }
 
 #friendScoresList {
diff --git a/index.html b/index.html
index 79ac8dd..c8be2f6 100644
--- a/index.html
+++ b/index.html
@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@
 			</div>
 		</div>
 		<div id="friendScores" aria-live="polite">
-			<div id="friendScoresHeader">Mutual friends on BeatLeader</div>
+			<div id="friendScoresHeader"><span id="friendScoresHeaderText">frenz!</span> <img id="friendScoresHeaderImg" src="assets/peepohigh.webp" alt=""></div>
 			<ol id="friendScoresList"></ol>
 			<div id="friendScoresEmpty">No map loaded</div>
 		</div>
@@ -66,6 +66,11 @@
 			<label>Show time: <input id="timeInput" type="checkbox"></label>
 			<label>Show score: <input id="scoreInput" type="checkbox"></label>
 			<label>Show friend scores: <input id="friendsInput" type="checkbox"></label>
+			<label>Friend list mode: <select id="friendModeInput">
+					<option value="mutual">Followed + follower (mutual)</option>
+					<option value="following">Following (I follow them)</option>
+					<option value="followers">Followers (they follow me)</option>
+				</select></label>
 			<label>Show BSR / map id: <input id="bsrInput" type="checkbox"></label>
 			<label>Position: <select id="positionInput">
 					<option value="[false,false]">Top left</option>
diff --git a/index.js b/index.js
index 0207bf6..a3ca9d5 100644
--- a/index.js
+++ b/index.js
@@ -118,16 +118,18 @@ async function fetchAllFollowers(playerId, type2, maxPages = 100) {
   }
   return all;
 }
-async function fetchMutualFriendIds(playerId, maxPages = 100) {
+async function fetchFriendIds(playerId, mode, maxPages = 100) {
   const canonicalPlayerId = await resolveBeatLeaderPlayerId(playerId);
   const [following, followers] = await Promise.all([
     fetchAllFollowers(canonicalPlayerId, "Following", maxPages),
     fetchAllFollowers(canonicalPlayerId, "Followers", maxPages)
   ]);
   const followingIds = new Set(following.map((entry) => String(entry.id)));
+  const followerIds = new Set(followers.map((entry) => String(entry.id)));
+  if (mode === "following") return followingIds;
+  if (mode === "followers") return followerIds;
   const mutuals = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set();
-  for (const entry of followers) {
-    const id = String(entry.id);
+  for (const id of followerIds) {
     if (followingIds.has(id)) {
       mutuals.add(id);
     }
@@ -277,6 +279,8 @@ var mistakes = must("mistakes");
 var friendScoresPanel = must("friendScores");
 var friendScoresList = must("friendScoresList");
 var friendScoresEmpty = must("friendScoresEmpty");
+var friendScoresHeaderText = must("friendScoresHeaderText");
+var friendScoresHeaderImg = must("friendScoresHeaderImg");
 var currentMapHash = "";
 var friendScoreRequestId = 0;
 function updateScore(score) {
@@ -288,13 +292,17 @@ function updateScore(score) {
 function clearFriendScores(message) {
   friendScoresList.replaceChildren();
   friendScoresEmpty.textContent = message;
+  friendScoresHeaderText.textContent = "frenz?";
+  friendScoresHeaderImg.src = "assets/notlikesteve.webp";
   friendScoresPanel.classList.remove("has-items", "is-loading");
 }
 function renderFriendScores(items) {
   friendScoresList.replaceChildren();
   friendScoresPanel.classList.toggle("has-items", items.length > 0);
   friendScoresPanel.classList.remove("is-loading");
-  friendScoresEmpty.textContent = items.length ? "" : "No mutual scores on this map";
+  friendScoresEmpty.textContent = items.length ? "" : "No friend scores on this map";
+  friendScoresHeaderText.textContent = items.length ? "frenz!" : "frenz?";
+  friendScoresHeaderImg.src = items.length ? "assets/peepohigh.webp" : "assets/notlikesteve.webp";
   for (const item of items) {
     const li = document.createElement("li");
     li.className = "friend-score-item";
@@ -329,7 +337,7 @@ async function refreshMapFriendScores() {
   try {
     const [leaderboards, mutualFriendIds] = await Promise.all([
       fetchBLLeaderboardsByHash(hash),
-      fetchMutualFriendIds(playerId)
+      fetchFriendIds(playerId, settings.friendMode)
     ]);
     if (requestId !== friendScoreRequestId) return;
     if (leaderboards.length === 0) {
@@ -337,7 +345,8 @@ async function refreshMapFriendScores() {
       return;
     }
     if (mutualFriendIds.size === 0) {
-      clearFriendScores("No mutual BeatLeader followers");
+      const relationLabel = settings.friendMode === "following" ? "No followed BeatLeader players" : settings.friendMode === "followers" ? "No BeatLeader followers" : "No mutual BeatLeader followers";
+      clearFriendScores(relationLabel);
       return;
     }
     const scores = await fetchAllMapScoresByHash(hash, leaderboards);
@@ -371,6 +380,7 @@ var settings = {
   time: true,
   score: true,
   friends: true,
+  friendMode: "mutual",
   bsr: false,
   debug: false,
   mockBsr: "4f4e4",
@@ -451,6 +461,13 @@ for (const key of [
     }
   };
 }
+var friendModeInput = must("friendModeInput");
+friendModeInput.value = settings.friendMode;
+friendModeInput.onchange = () => {
+  settings.friendMode = friendModeInput.value;
+  saveSettings();
+  void refreshMapFriendScores();
+};
 var mockBsrInput = must("mockBsrInput");
 mockBsrInput.value = settings.mockBsr;
 mockBsrInput.oninput = () => {
@@ -495,6 +512,7 @@ var requestListEl = must("requestList");
 var requestOverlayEl = must("requestOverlay");
 var requestEmptyEl = must("requestEmpty");
 var requestTitleCache = /* @__PURE__ */ new Map();
+var requestTitleMisses = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set();
 function useRequestHistorySim() {
   return settings.debug || new URLSearchParams(location.search).get("debug") === "1";
 }
@@ -544,19 +562,26 @@ function requesterLine(item) {
   return parts.length ? parts.join(" ") : item.rqn || "";
 }
 async function enrichRequestTitle(key, titleEl) {
+  if (requestTitleMisses.has(key)) return;
   if (requestTitleCache.has(key)) {
     titleEl.textContent = requestTitleCache.get(key) ?? "";
     return;
   }
   try {
     const map = await fetchBeatSaverMapById(key);
-    if (!map) return;
+    if (!map) {
+      requestTitleMisses.add(key);
+      return;
+    }
     const name = map.metadata?.songName ?? map.name;
     if (name && typeof name === "string") {
       requestTitleCache.set(key, name);
       titleEl.textContent = name;
+      return;
     }
+    requestTitleMisses.add(key);
   } catch {
+    requestTitleMisses.add(key);
   }
 }
 function renderRequestList(items) {
diff --git a/src/client/beatleader.ts b/src/client/beatleader.ts
index 22eed08..99b6f25 100644
--- a/src/client/beatleader.ts
+++ b/src/client/beatleader.ts
@@ -9,6 +9,7 @@ import type {
 const BASE_URL = "https://api.beatleader.com";
 const PAGE_SIZE = 100;
 const USE_RUNTIME_PROXY = typeof document !== "undefined";
+export type FriendMode = "mutual" | "following" | "followers";
 
 function beatleaderUrl(path: string): string {
 	if (USE_RUNTIME_PROXY) {
@@ -162,15 +163,21 @@ async function fetchAllFollowers(
 }
 
 export async function fetchMutualFriendIds(playerId: string, maxPages = 100): Promise<Set<string>> {
+	return fetchFriendIds(playerId, "mutual", maxPages);
+}
+
+export async function fetchFriendIds(playerId: string, mode: FriendMode, maxPages = 100): Promise<Set<string>> {
 	const canonicalPlayerId = await resolveBeatLeaderPlayerId(playerId);
 	const [following, followers] = await Promise.all([
 		fetchAllFollowers(canonicalPlayerId, "Following", maxPages),
 		fetchAllFollowers(canonicalPlayerId, "Followers", maxPages),
 	]);
 	const followingIds = new Set(following.map((entry) => String(entry.id)));
+	const followerIds = new Set(followers.map((entry) => String(entry.id)));
+	if (mode === "following") return followingIds;
+	if (mode === "followers") return followerIds;
 	const mutuals = new Set<string>();
-	for (const entry of followers) {
-		const id = String(entry.id);
+	for (const id of followerIds) {
 		if (followingIds.has(id)) {
 			mutuals.add(id);
 		}
diff --git a/src/client/index.ts b/src/client/index.ts
index 3c8d1c2..51e78ee 100644
--- a/src/client/index.ts
+++ b/src/client/index.ts
@@ -9,7 +9,8 @@ import { fetchBeatSaverMapById, fetchBeatSaverMeta } from "./beatsaver.ts";
 import {
 	fetchAllMapScoresByHash,
 	fetchBLLeaderboardsByHash,
-	fetchMutualFriendIds,
+	fetchFriendIds,
+	type FriendMode,
 	normalizeAccuracy,
 } from "./beatleader.ts";
 
@@ -176,6 +177,8 @@ const mistakes = must<HTMLElement>("mistakes");
 const friendScoresPanel = must<HTMLElement>("friendScores");
 const friendScoresList = must<HTMLOListElement>("friendScoresList");
 const friendScoresEmpty = must<HTMLElement>("friendScoresEmpty");
+const friendScoresHeaderText = must<HTMLElement>("friendScoresHeaderText");
+const friendScoresHeaderImg = must<HTMLImageElement>("friendScoresHeaderImg");
 
 let currentMapHash = "";
 let friendScoreRequestId = 0;
@@ -190,6 +193,8 @@ function updateScore(score: Score) {
 function clearFriendScores(message: string) {
 	friendScoresList.replaceChildren();
 	friendScoresEmpty.textContent = message;
+	friendScoresHeaderText.textContent = "frenz?";
+	friendScoresHeaderImg.src = "assets/notlikesteve.webp";
 	friendScoresPanel.classList.remove("has-items", "is-loading");
 }
 
@@ -197,7 +202,9 @@ function renderFriendScores(items: Array<{ name: string; acc: number }>) {
 	friendScoresList.replaceChildren();
 	friendScoresPanel.classList.toggle("has-items", items.length > 0);
 	friendScoresPanel.classList.remove("is-loading");
-	friendScoresEmpty.textContent = items.length ? "" : "No mutual scores on this map";
+	friendScoresEmpty.textContent = items.length ? "" : "No friend scores on this map";
+	friendScoresHeaderText.textContent = items.length ? "frenz!" : "frenz?";
+	friendScoresHeaderImg.src = items.length ? "assets/peepohigh.webp" : "assets/notlikesteve.webp";
 	for (const item of items) {
 		const li = document.createElement("li");
 		li.className = "friend-score-item";
@@ -233,7 +240,7 @@ async function refreshMapFriendScores() {
 	try {
 		const [leaderboards, mutualFriendIds] = await Promise.all([
 			fetchBLLeaderboardsByHash(hash),
-			fetchMutualFriendIds(playerId),
+			fetchFriendIds(playerId, settings.friendMode),
 		]);
 		if (requestId !== friendScoreRequestId) return;
 		if (leaderboards.length === 0) {
@@ -241,7 +248,12 @@ async function refreshMapFriendScores() {
 			return;
 		}
 		if (mutualFriendIds.size === 0) {
-			clearFriendScores("No mutual BeatLeader followers");
+			const relationLabel = settings.friendMode === "following"
+				? "No followed BeatLeader players"
+				: settings.friendMode === "followers"
+				? "No BeatLeader followers"
+				: "No mutual BeatLeader followers";
+			clearFriendScores(relationLabel);
 			return;
 		}
 		const scores = await fetchAllMapScoresByHash(hash, leaderboards);
@@ -280,6 +292,7 @@ interface Settings {
 	time: boolean;
 	score: boolean;
 	friends: boolean;
+	friendMode: FriendMode;
 	bsr: boolean;
 	debug: boolean;
 	mockBsr: string;
@@ -296,6 +309,7 @@ const settings: Settings = {
 	time: true,
 	score: true,
 	friends: true,
+	friendMode: "mutual",
 	bsr: false,
 	debug: false,
 	mockBsr: "4f4e4",
@@ -380,6 +394,14 @@ for (const key of ["cover", "mapInfo", "time", "score", "friends", "bsr", "debug
 	};
 }
 
+const friendModeInput = must<HTMLSelectElement>("friendModeInput");
+friendModeInput.value = settings.friendMode;
+friendModeInput.onchange = () => {
+	settings.friendMode = friendModeInput.value as FriendMode;
+	saveSettings();
+	void refreshMapFriendScores();
+};
+
 const mockBsrInput = must<HTMLInputElement>("mockBsrInput");
 mockBsrInput.value = settings.mockBsr;
 mockBsrInput.oninput = () => {
@@ -430,6 +452,7 @@ const requestListEl = must<HTMLOListElement>("requestList");
 const requestOverlayEl = must<HTMLElement>("requestOverlay");
 const requestEmptyEl = must<HTMLElement>("requestEmpty");
 const requestTitleCache = new Map<string, string>();
+const requestTitleMisses = new Set<string>();
 
 function useRequestHistorySim() {
 	return settings.debug || new URLSearchParams(location.search).get("debug") === "1";
@@ -473,20 +496,26 @@ function requesterLine(item: ChatRequestEntry) {
 }
 
 async function enrichRequestTitle(key: string, titleEl: HTMLElement) {
+	if (requestTitleMisses.has(key)) return;
 	if (requestTitleCache.has(key)) {
 		titleEl.textContent = requestTitleCache.get(key) ?? "";
 		return;
 	}
 	try {
 		const map = await fetchBeatSaverMapById(key);
-		if (!map) return;
+		if (!map) {
+			requestTitleMisses.add(key);
+			return;
+		}
 		const name = map.metadata?.songName ?? map.name;
 		if (name && typeof name === "string") {
 			requestTitleCache.set(key, name);
 			titleEl.textContent = name;
+			return;
 		}
+		requestTitleMisses.add(key);
 	} catch {
-		// keep !bsr placeholder
+		requestTitleMisses.add(key);
 	}
 }